here<\/a>. It is worth the watch. Seriously!<\/p>\n\n\n\nSo, how can we support a loved one who is struggling? What can I do if I’m the one struggling?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For the person fighting their way through tough, stressful, overwhelming times. Allowing yourself to feel the emotions that naturally arise from such circumstances, treating yourself with compassion and understanding as you try to make your way through, and reaching out for support (rather than isolating and suffering in silence) are the best things to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For the person on the outside, witnessing another person’s struggle and suffering. Practicing empathy, offering support, and being there for that person, are the best things you can do. Try to recall a time in your life when you felt this way, and consider what did or could’ve helped you then. Do those things. I’m almost positive that being told to “buck up” and “think positive” didn’t help. I’m almost positive that hearing phrases that started with “well, at least…” or “____ has it so much worse” didn’t help. Be kind, be open, be accepting. And only offer advice when you’re asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now, to be clear, I am not advocating that people wallow in self-pity indefinitely. That’s healthy either. Although, I am certainly a proponent of time-limited wallowing! But allowing ourselves the space to feel our feelings so that they may pass (as all feelings do), while being present and nonjudgmental, is the best thing we can do for ourselves when we’re struggling. Embrace yourself in all of your complex glory!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One of my favorite books about accepting your emotions as they are and improving your outlook on life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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